7 Tips on How to Handle Moving Your Parent to Assisted Living

Even if you are helping a willing parent move to an assisted living community, the experience can be fraught with emotion. Your parent is likely to mourn the loss of their younger years, independence, and home as well as be scared about the aging process. If you are moving your parent to assisted living, it’s your job to ensure that they settle in and are comfortable during the initial stages. 

Moving Your Parent to Assisted Living

You may second-guess your decision and feel guilty, however, keep these strategies in mind as you all make the transition to the new and exciting.

Give it Time

It will typically take about six months for your parent to adjust to the new change in their life. It might be quicker or longer, but stay focused on the reasons you made the decision.

Visit Often

You know your parent best, so only you can decide how best to help them through the early weeks of their move. Trust that in time they will make friends on campus and become happier as they adjust to their new routine.

It Takes a Village

Make sure you notify close friends and family about the new state of things so they can help you help your parent adjust to their new routine.

Expect Setbacks

Just when everything seems like it is settling into place, things may change. They may have difficulty making friends or dislike their food options, but these setbacks are normal. They may clear up with time, however, if these issues persist you may want to talk to your parent and community-associated about possible solutions.

Acknowledge the Difficult Times

Of course, you want this transition to be smooth sailing, however, it is important to listen to their fears and concerns. Then help them through the difficult times when they arise.

Include Their Personal Belongings

Moving your parent to assisted living often means they will have to downsize. But that doesn’t mean they can’t bring their belongings to their new community. This will help them settle in faster and make their new surroundings feel more like home. 

Be Your Parents’ Advocate

As great as we think Twin Towers is, no community is 100% perfect. You and your parent may see areas that need improvement but your parent may be afraid to speak up. Be sure to bring any and all complaints to campus associates so they may have the opportunity to address the problem.

Wondering if your parent or spouse might be ready for assisted living but don’t know what the next step is? Check out our free eBook, Assisted Living and Older Adults!